"From an objective perspective, consider that puberty is a period intraphysical (individual) and psychosexual growth means that many boys and girls between twelve and fifteen years to feel confused and uneasy. The idea that this development alone, can give rise to interpersonal conflicts with adults is simply absurd. The number of conflicts and their intensity depends, among other things, the ability of adults to recognize the changes required in their role as parents and the way they have treated the development of their children integrity during three or four first years of life . "
This says Jesper Juul (in his book" His son, a competent person. Towards the new basic family values \u200b\u200b"), family therapist Danish international prestige. comes to saying that if you have not done a "good" job for 3 or 4 first years of the child, fun awaits puberty. What do you think? Do you agree? It's a little scary, right? What if you realize, around 5 or 6 years of your child, you have to change your relationship with him? Do all is lost yet?
Raquel (P4-B)
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